How do you break up with someone gently?

Answer by  psychmajor (61)

You tell them that they are a very special person, with unique qualities, and will make an excellent partner for someone in the future, but after much soul searching, you realize that you are not that person. There is no way for this not to hurt, but try to be honest, and kind.

Answer by  Sharyl (340)

It is not easy any way you do it, but try not to put blame on the other person and do not do it in a text or email message. If there is a new person in the picture leave them out of it.

Answer by  starfinder (19)

Take them to a private place and instead of saying it's not you, it's me, offer a full explanation so you don't hurt their ego.

Answer by  meridian (466)

Unfortunately it's hard to break up with somebody gently to where someone's feelings don't get hurt, unless the other person is trying to find a way to break up with you too. Don't put the blame on him or her, let it be on you, and don't cause a scene.