addiction






 

Question by  al (35)

What can I do about my husband who won't quit smoking marijuana?

 
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Answer by  Anonymous

Leave. I have tried everything at at end of the day its always the addiction that wins, If a person does not respect you enough to want to make you happy, after all the point of marraige is to travel on the same path then you deserve better.

 
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Answer by  boylen (168)

Well, there isn't much you can't do if the situation is that he "won't" quit rather than he "can't quit". Try to get him to understand how destructive his habit is to your relationship.

 
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Answer by  Michelle27 (103)

You can help him get some help with the problem. Look into counseling, a rehab program, mediation, etc. If he's willing to go through these to kick the habit then it's easy for you to do. If he's not... then you need to do the mediation and give him an ultimatum - you or marijuana.

 
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Answer by  wonhunglo (19)

Make him realize that his habit is affecting you personally. It may have to do with the way you see him, or the way you believe society will view him.

 
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Answer by  sammy0415 (274)

The first step is to communicate to him that his actions make you very unhappy. Don't yell or get angry with him, just try and make him understand.

 
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Answer by  craig24 (48)

You could be supportive of him, as he's probably doing it due to stress. Or send him to a rehab clinic, hold an intervention, or simply threaten him with divorce. A severe reality check is probably the only solution.

 
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Answer by  YoStagg (15)

If you can't beat 'em join 'em! Believe me there are MUCH worse addictions.

posted by Anonymous
this is the most stupid uneducated statement of all times. Fortunatly and obviously you have never lived with the physiala nmd emotional dramas that are caused by someones problem with it. My husband is beautifull untill he gets on that then teh paranoya sets in the house and myself.......  add a comment
posted by Anonymous
.. get smashed up and sends me to the sate of fear and constantly walking on egg shells just antisipating what mood hell be in, whcih takes effect causing depression etc. In future educate yourself a little more before loosly making such a stupid comment you cant classify its level..  add a comment
 
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Answer by  Anonymous

why u care? how often does he smoke?

posted by Anonymous
What do you care if I care? It\'s not about the frequency, it\'s about the fact that he does smoke.  add a comment
posted by Anonymous
because its all about the frequency. maybe u are just selfish and cant accept he has his privacy. or maybe hes addictive and smokign every day. but from the last of ur post i assume ure close minded and just want him to obey.  add a comment
 
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