How can I talk to my wife about her depression?

Answer by  timeismoney (994)

Do not ignore depression, and don't be afraid to talk about it openly. Tell her you can see she is suffering and you are concerned. Be nonjudgmental. Let her know that treatment will help her feel better, and get her to a mental health professional.

Answer by  Chantal (47)

After work one night, make dinner for her. If you have kids, ask if someone else can take care of them for the night. After dinner, maybe over a glass of wine, ask her how she is feeling. If she says she is down, tell her that you love her and offer to go to a therapist with her.

Answer by  and1lpfan (356)

It may be a sensitive or sore subject, so always confront the situation with care. Ask your wife how she is feeling, and why she is feeling that way, maybe suggest that you both go see a therapist together.

Answer by  liblue (683)

Talking to a wife about depression is best when she feels she is not alone. To offer to spend quality time and walk or have her get out are examples. If she needs a counselor you can offer to go with her. She may not agree to any of these things but at least she knows you care.